Walk Away a Winner – Walking Away a Winner Is No Baloney The gospel of negotiators has always been that a good deal means that both sides win. I get what I want and you get what you want. However, this does not mean that each side comes away with what they wanted at the … Read more
Walk Away a Winner – Remember That Some Deals Can’t Be Made – No Matter What I’ve been asked why I included this in a list of rules for successful negotiations. The reason is that unless you recognize in the back of your mind that sometimes the deal can’t be made, you will miss out … Read more
Walk Away a Winner – Don’t Stick to the “Pie” Analogy or “Bottom Line” Reasoning Sometime in the distant past there was an unlucky baker who said, “I’ve only got so many pieces of pie to sell and when they’re gone, I’ll close for the day.” Soon after, “pie charts” came into existence for demonstrating … Read more
Walk Away a Winner – Never Respond to an Offer That Can’t Be Closed This is a real estate classic. You’re a seller and are asking $200,000 for your property. A buyer comes through your house, looks at it, leaves, and then the next day comes back again. You’re sure this per son is interested … Read more
Walk Away a Winner – Only Work on Issues That Can Be Resolved TIP Always do the possible first. Leave the impossible till later. You’re a buyer and you offer to purchase a home. You want the seller to accept a lower price, carry a second mortgage, move out within 30 days, and put on … Read more
Walk Away a Winner – Be Informed TIP The old maxim “Knowledge is power” applies doubly in real estate. Being informed can make a big difference in almost every sale. For example, you’re presenting an offer that contains a financing contingency that specifies that the purchase is subject to your obtaining a 90 percent of … Read more
Walk Away a Winner: Always Give Yourself an Alternative This rule is all about leverage in negotiation. If you follow it, you’ll have leverage. If you don’t, you will not get the deal you want because you won’t have the leverage necessary to get it. The classic example here is of a young couple who … Read more
Learn to Act: Listen Carefully Most of us listen more to how a person talks than what he or she says. If the person is loud and speaking in an angry voice, their anger, frustration, and perhaps fear come through. If a person speaks very softly, we may suspect that he or she is very … Read more
Learn to Act: Make Lists There is a corollary to this, namely that you can use the written word to your advantage. You can use the written word to add energy to a deal. When I’m presenting an offer (or having one presented to m e), I like to draw up lists. I ask the … Read more
Learn to Act: Challenge the Written Word Have you ever noticed the power of the printed word? You’re signing a lease and it says, “No pets allowed.” You have a pet. Suddenly you feel the energy flowing out of the agreement. You won’t get rid of Bowser and they don’t take pets. Can you keep … Read more
